Wednesday, 18 July 2012

The Moon in my Pocket

  
You are looking at one of the most prolific English writers of the twentieth century. Rupert Croft-Cooke (1903-79) may be a forgotten name, but his 125 books - encompassing fiction, poetry, plays, biography and non-fiction - stand testament to his remarkable life.

Born in Edenbridge, Kent, to Lucy and Hubert Bruce Cooke, Rupert was educated at Tonbridge School and Wellington College, and worked variously as a writer, journalist and reviewer, an antiquarian bookseller, a teacher and a radio broadcaster. In defiance of his middle-class upbringing and his father's narrowminded views, he spent many years abroad - in Paris, Buenos Aires, Morocco, Spain, Tunisia and elsewhere - living cheaply and absorbing new cultures. His autobiographical travel series, The Sensual World, brims with period detail, and whilst focussing on people and places, nevertheless reveals his honesty, optimism and social consciousness.

On my bookshelves I have a copy of Rupert's 1938 work (signed and from Foyles, no less), How to get More out of Life; a guide to maintaining individuality, surviving and even thriving in modern times. Wear a cloak, keep a pet badger, sing on the train, he advises. List all the things you want to do but think you shouldn't, and set about doing them.

Rupert practiced as he preached: in the winter of 1939, he bought a gypsy caravan (vardo) and a horse, and took to the road with a Romani companion, Ted Scamp. From Ted and many others, he learnt about Romani culture, customs, language and crafts. Despite the outbreak of war, these were blissful days.
I came to the gypsies by my own way... I lived with them because I liked it... Among the gypsies I was no lavengro, no word-man. I was too happy.
Rupert Croft-Cooke, The Moon in my Pocket: Life with the Romanies (London: Sampson Low, Marston & Co, 1948), p. 1.

To learn from books was not enough; indeed, Rupert did not discover the 'gypsiologists' - the anthropologists, historians, linguists and other successors of George Borrow, who came together under the Gypsy Lore Society - until after his own travels began.

In 1948, he recounted his experiences in The Moon in my Pocket: Life with the Romanies. (You can see pictures of this book in my first post). Ending with a powerful 'vindication' of the gypsies, his own photographs and a list of commonly-used Romani words, it educated and inspired readers. In his follow-up book of 1955, A Few Gypsies, Rupert recalls the letters he received from fans ready to take to the road themselves. But increasingly, such a way of life was no longer possible.

Impossible... to see the gypsies pass with their paint and brasswork catching the sun... without a spasm of envy. For their appointment tonight is with the rising moon, their engagement tomorrow is to meet another day.
Croft-Cooke, The Moon in my Pocket (London: Sampson Low, Marston & Co, 1948), p. 181.

I am more than grateful to Rupert Croft-Cooke. He has taught me facts I should already have known, provided wonderful insights into gypsy life and described characters so vividly that I feel I have known them. He has opened a rare window, and encouraged me to look for others.

19 comments:

  1. Hi my greatgrandperants are ted and Lilly scamp ted was also known as uncle ginger would be very nice if I could see some pictures and hear some more info about them please can you email me at n.ashdown@hotmail.co.uk

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  2. How exciting to hear from a descendant of Ted and Lily Scamp! They come across as such lovely people in Rupert Croft-Cooke's writings. He regarded them as among his closest friends and even dedicated 'A Few Gypsies' to them.

    I would love to help you and will email you as soon as I can.

    Best wishes,

    Charlotte

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  3. hi ted is my grandfathers brother it would be lovely to hear about any information you have an see any pictures can you put them on here for us all to see thanks

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  4. Ted and Lil changed their name to Matthews, and are buried in St Nicholas church, Canterbury.

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  5. I am terribly behind with the blog, but it's so inspiring to read your comments - thank you!

    I will certainly write more about Ted and Lily Scamp. 'The Moon in my Pocket' includes some photos of Ted, but I'm not sure if I can post them here for copyright reasons. I'll ask the publisher.

    A trip to St Nicholas' church is definitely in order!

    It would be fascinating to built up a bigger picture of Ted and Lily, and other Romani families Rupert met (like the Costers, Locks and Smiths). Please do leave a comment if you have anything to add!

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  6. I went to teds funeral I can confirm that he is at st Nicholas church in Canterbury you might wish to also visit teds parents his father is in a graveyard in Ramsgate over looking sevenscore farm and his mother is in biddenden churchyard not to far from goldwell farm where their family worked ted was given the name ted scamp when he was born but he took the name of Mathews later I believe before he met lil i am afraid the scamp family is really interesting and is a great hobbie of mine researching the family tree i have been uncovering information for nearly 23 years now and have many interesting facts i am glad that someone else shares the same interest its is fascinating i have also been lucky enough to talk to many of the older members of the family they have answered many questions including ted himself i consider myself very fortunate indeed it would be lovely if you would build up a bigger picture i am sure you would get lots of information

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  7. Thank you for such an informative and encouraging comment - you have inspired me! I'm working on a post about Ted and Lily based on Rupert Croft-Cooke's writings, which I hope will give you some new information. I'd like to write about the other families he knew, too.

    I believe that Ted was one of Riley Scamp's 24 children and had two sons, one called Peter. I'd love to hear anything you could add, especially if the family ever discussed Ted and Rupert's travels. There's a lovely story of how the two spent 13 years trying to find each other again.

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  8. hi charlotte yes ted was one of riley scamps 24 children and he had a son, yes the family did discuss about ted and ruperts travels a fair bit my grandfather filled me in on a lot of information with regards to the family and all of riley scamps children I questioned ted about his friendship with ted and he got quite upset as it brought back memories of their time together there is a lovely story on how Rupert spent a long time trying to find ted but the truth of it was the family were travelling around a fair bit and they kept missing each other some of the family were in biddenden peter always wanted to write a book about the family and I must admit it is fascinating for each of riley scamps 24 children there is an interesting story to tell if you search on the internet phoebe smith you will find she is a singer and you can buy her cd or down load it she was teds sister also Charlie scamp has a track you can listen to as well one of teds brothers hope you will find this information useful I would be lovely to see any information you have kind regards

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  9. Peter is my grandad ted was his father he also had another son called Steve and a daughter Yvonne

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    1. if peter is your grandad that makes me your auntie, who are? who are your parents?

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  10. I'd love to know more as Dave costerwas my grandfather, I've heard so many stories of his time with the scamps and with Rupert on their travels and how he was learning our language. Looking forward to seeing more.

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  11. Hello all. You may be interested in another book that mentions Ted, and the old family of Scamp. It tells of Teds father, and Grandfather Gilderoy. The book is called GYPSY JIB a Romany Dictionary. Written by James Hayward. Published in 2003 by Holm Oak Publishing. The book contains the Scamp Family Tree and many great old photos.

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  12. Hi all. Ted and Lily were my grandparents.I only vaguely remember Lily as she passed away when i was young but i do remember Ted, he used to help my dad work on his farm.Their son Peter is my dad,I am interested to find out who the person is that is Peter's grandchild.

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  13. Ted was me grt grandfather Charlie brother do anybody have any old family photos of them all

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  14. My granny and grandfather (costers) r in this book can u forward me on sum pic or any info thanks s.wood

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  15. I'm doing a family tree at the moment and it could possibly be my grand mother(ria coaster) holding my mother in the picture. As I find out more and put dates to names I'll let you know

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  16. If you Google pebble smith or Charlie scamp folk singers you can hear them singing on line pheobe and Charlie are tees brother and sister

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